DEAR ANNIE: Five years ago, I left my abusive husband because I couldn’t take it any longer. He is a narcissist and manipulator to me and his children. My children have suffered at the hands of their father. We have been legally married for 31 years but separated for five. I took him back last summer because he promised he was a different man and had learned his lesson. Well, that was never the case. He was hiding his phone from me and lying about his contacts. He accused me of being in a jealous rage. Well, I got a hold of his phone, and lo and behold, there it was, exactly what I knew in my …