DEAR ANNIE: My boyfriend and I don’t really keep track of our spending, but we try to make it pretty even by trading off who pays for different expenses — groceries, date nights, travel costs, etc. We both have good jobs, and we make about the same amount of money. Recently, however, we sat down to look at our finances and our monthly budgets. When I did the math, I discovered that I’ve been paying for way more than he has. When I told him this, he just kind of shrugged. I asked him, “What should we do about this?” and he just responded, “I don’t know, what do you want to do?” I don’t want hi…