By Bonnie Stiernberg One day, hopefully, we won’t have to keep updating this list. But the past few years have felt like an especially fraught time to be an American, and the past week or so has been particularly overwhelming thanks to the death of Roe v. Wade and some bombshell Jan. 6 testimony that could very well lead to a former president being charged with seditious conspiracy. Headed into the holiday weekend, fireworks and barbecues are the last things on our minds — just as they were last year and the year before that. Between the COVID-19 pandemic and the horrific killings of Black Ame…