DEAR ANNIE: I love your column and am writing to offer a different point of view for the woman whose family does not celebrate her birthday or Mother’s Day or Christmas the way she wants. She says she gives them presents, but they don’t reciprocate. Well, I have a friend who goes overboard in celebrating these holidays. She will spend an entire year looking for the special gift. At times, it’s more like 50 gifts, and, of course, my friend feels let down at my ONE gift card. Annie, I don’t have the time, energy, money and, most importantly, the desire to drive all over the state searching for t…