DEAR ANNIE: I’m a professional woman who’s been married for over 40 years and has two wonderful, happily married daughters who live out of state. My husband’s been retired for almost 10 years from a job he loved. His adjustment to retirement has not been easy. For many years, he assisted our children with our grandchildren but did significantly less during COVID. I’ve worked from home partially during COVID and have come to understand how very little he does and how, during much of the day, he has no purposeful activity. I’m still fully engaged in my career and find my work both challenging an…