DEAR ANNIE: “Alex” is my ex-husband and the father of our two sons, ages 21 and 18. Alex and I married when we were young. I discovered that he had a lot of issues, and I left him after 15 years of marriage. At that time, he finally went to therapy, something I had begged him to do for years. He was diagnosed with narcissism. He quit therapy because, in his words, there was nothing wrong with him but something wrong with the rest of the world. I moved out of state, and both of our sons chose to stay with their father — the older for college and the younger for a job. One problem I have is tha…
